Your girlfriend has been too modest, close, and quiet as the grave lately…You can still hope that it is just a seasonal affective disorder. You say sex is perfect. I have nothing to worry about. Physical infidelity is half the trouble. What if she has an eye on somebody else? What if she loves another man?
Let us be honest. You can still cover your eyes so you do n
ot see the infidelity. However, it is better to get your head out of the clouds before jealousy envenoms your mind completely. A new “friend” of hers will become a reason for your suffering sooner or later. Therefore, read the following hints and go back to the real world.
- Super good intimate relationships (or vice versa)
When the new crush has not reached the bedroom of the other man, you may seem you sleep with a porn star. However, do not rush flattering yourself. In sober fact, she wants him. Unfortunately, you are the only one who is accessible at the moment. Therefore, a stranger gets her love while you are “awarded” with the passion. Of course, some girls tend to demonstrate the chill in relations with their first partners. Evidently, this way, you will not jump for joy. It is hard to say which of these is worse.
- No problems
Her new guy usually becomes an emotional partner. In this case sharing of what troubles her with 2 people is too devastating. The main boy will be her energy-keeper, when you will have to get used to the silence. She may even give up having sex with you in the future. It is the most shining sign of the disloyalty the researchers say.
- Advantages turn into disadvantages
She may blame you for what you have been praised before. Let us say, what a boring movie you have picked or what happened to the steak you cooked. What is more, your date can even complain about your traits of character. Do not be afraid of your cooking skills having disappeared in a second. She just puts both of you into comparison. That is why you can drastically become the worst guy on Earth.
- Smartphone is better than you are
If she used the phone only for work or friends not so long ago
, nowadays it is the single connection with her mysterious friend when you are around. She will hope that you will be jealous of the gadget. Whenever your cork will be blown, your girl will write it off as your unexplainable rage. We are living in the 21st century, aren’t we?
- Too much Toms, Dicks and Harrys
Usually adulterers do their best in order not to mention their lover’s name in the presence of their dates. However, sometimes our subconsciousness turns out to be cleverer. When you are tired of her talking about one specific male friend, be attentive. The moment you get furious and try to blame her for not being loyal, watch her reaction. The well-prepared excuse of them being just friends or, worse, a runaround of hers means that your seventh sense is likely to be right.
- New tactics
Let us imagine your regular fight on your being untidy and, what a surprise, she uses quite different arguments and, for instance, mocks you. Strange unfamiliar comments, weird answers and new ways to offend you can be a figment of her new boyfriend’s imagination. She is definitely discusses your tensed relationships with him. How do you like it now?
- A third wheel
Another case. You are having fun on a party with your girlfriend. As soon as her dearest “friend” appears in your sight, she leaves and talks to him face-to-face. You cannot miss this essential signal and enjoy the party. Better, keep your weather eye open and do not lose the sight of this couple of supposedly friends. Bursts of laughing and eye-to-eye conversations do not bode well.
If you decide to stop this relationship, try Russian dating and see what loyalty is about.