DISGUSTED FORMER WIFE
I am disgusted by all the comments on the previously posted, “Do African Men Make Better Husbands,” and I say a big bullshit to that question. Of course, African men are big cheaters and they do it with impunity, especially when they use stupid arguments about cultural differences to bamboozle us ‘Acadas’, the derogatory word they use for African American women into believing that there is something different between their culture and our own.
I was married to an African for more than five years, and we were happy. I had been hearing stories of his cheating on me, but I didn’t pay too much attention, after all, I deluded myself into thinking, well American and especially, African-American men are worse at cheating. But I didn’t get pregnant, not for not trying. We tried to be happy.
Then one day, a woman arrived at our home, and she was introduced to me as a niece of my husband’s. True, true, she behaved like a niece, playful with my husband, doing the things that made me happy, cooking and clearing the dishes. I accepted her as my niece, after all she was my husband’s niece. BIG MISTAKE!! After three months, I began to notice some changes in her behavior. Some times, I would come home from my job as a registered nurse and the dishes would not be cleaned.
Three months later, that’s after six months, I began to notice a change in her body and her attitude had become totally insulting. One day, I challenged my husband about his relationship with his so-called niece. I threatened him and that was when he owned to the niece being his wife sent to him by his relatives from home because I couldn’t get pregnant. He said he loved me too much to tell me the truth.
Truth be told, if I had a gun, I would have shot both of them dead right away. The only thing I could do was hurriedly gathered their things and threw out into the street and pushed them out of my, after all it was my house. He has called more than a thousand times, leaving messages about how much he still loves. Imagine the effrontery!!
So stop telling me about how good African men are. I say take these motherfuckers and take them back to their Tarzan infested primitive bushes!!